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boycott dudes who manipulate you into meeting their emotional or sexual needs but won’t date you 2k14

when someone’s flaws are not flaws in your eyes, you’re fucked.

-mine.  (via clatite)

Don’t allow your wounds to turn you into a person you are not.

-Paulo Coelho  (via deserted-streets)


do people say “bad neighborhood” for cities next to all-white high schools where the boys are getting high every day and raping girls? do they even say “bad neighborhood” for cities with large kkk meetings? or is bad neighborhood a strictly anti-black code?



it takes 237 muscles to fake an orgasm but 15 to say “it’s called a clitoris and it’s right here”

#don’t ever fake an orgasm let them know they disappointed you


the last time I hung out with a white dude with a beard he said “I don’t get when girls talk about how they like butts, like what would a girl even do with a butt” and everyone agreed with him and I still need a break from that mess I can’t go back


What’s it like to be someone’s first choice l o l

#too real

I feel ugly

posted 2 hours ago with 2 notes

It sucks having two unsympathetic parents.
I can’t turn to my mum when i’m sad, because she’s so self absorbed and can’t deal with my problems.
And I can’t turn to my dad because he has no patience for tears and frankly, I don’t think he’d ever take me seriously or validate my pain.
My brother is unpredictable.
My friends listen but they can’t really help.
So I’m kind of in it alone. As I have always been.

posted 2 hours ago with 4 notes

"I think maybe we can’t be.” // r.i.d


black girls with eating disorders are so important & need to be protected

because it’s believed that we don’t think about things like that, we all apparently love our “inherently” thick bodies and thickness is something we all glorify and strive to achieve

we’re too “strong” to have any kind of illness, especially not an ED

EDs among black girls are so common and are easily dismissed as “white girl stuff” and thats so destructive and harmful