boycott dudes who manipulate you into meeting their emotional or sexual needs but won’t date you 2k14
do people say “bad neighborhood” for cities next to all-white high schools where the boys are getting high every day and raping girls? do they even say “bad neighborhood” for cities with large kkk meetings? or is bad neighborhood a strictly anti-black code?
it takes 237 muscles to fake an orgasm but 15 to say “it’s called a clitoris and it’s right here”
the last time I hung out with a white dude with a beard he said “I don’t get when girls talk about how they like butts, like what would a girl even do with a butt” and everyone agreed with him and I still need a break from that mess I can’t go back
What’s it like to be someone’s first choice l o l
It sucks having two unsympathetic parents.
I can’t turn to my mum when i’m sad, because she’s so self absorbed and can’t deal with my problems.
And I can’t turn to my dad because he has no patience for tears and frankly, I don’t think he’d ever take me seriously or validate my pain.
My brother is unpredictable.
My friends listen but they can’t really help.
So I’m kind of in it alone. As I have always been.
black girls with eating disorders are so important & need to be protected
because it’s believed that we don’t think about things like that, we all apparently love our “inherently” thick bodies and thickness is something we all glorify and strive to achieve
we’re too “strong” to have any kind of illness, especially not an ED
EDs among black girls are so common and are easily dismissed as “white girl stuff” and thats so destructive and harmful